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some super random thoughts

some super random thoughts

Wanted to blog this yesterday night, but was affected by something so I did not have the mood to blog, so I will try to remember as much as I can remember what I wanted to say yesterday.

Yesterday night I was listening to FM100.3, sometimes at night they would talk about some random stuff about daily llife, so yesterday they topics was what you would do if you found out that your boyfriend is cheating on you. They had three options I guess, I did not really take note.

I think the options were:

1) take revenge
2) make a clean break
3) forgive him

In general, there are many people choosing the different option, one more memorable caller said that she will take revenge by cheating on him with another guy. Mainly all almost said that they will forgive him and make a clean break or just simply forgive him and carry on the relationship.

I think if it was me in the past, I would say that I would make a clean break and forgive him, but now, I think I will make a clean break and not forgive him.

I know although forgiving him might sounds good, but why should I forgive?

I think that if someone close to be do something that hurt my feelings intentionally, it would affect me much more than anyone else.

If I have chosen to go into a relationship with a person, it would mean that I like him and cherish him a lot. So if he cheats on him, I think I will detest him much much more then anyone else.

For me I think it is super difficult to forgive someone who have toyed with your feelings, and sometimes I wonder why people do that, what are they really thinking with they do that.

So I guess I would not really forgive that person, I will just try to erase or even forget his existence from my memory if I can do that.

posted by maevbe @ 10:11 AM